The Loneliest Superstar Ever (Open Magazine on Rajesh Khanna)
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You know Rajesh Khanna, don’t you? If you are a young man or woman reading this, you may have heard of him as Akshay Kumar’s father-in-law or Dimple Kapadia’s husband or Amitabh Bachchan’s one-time co-star. At a pinch, you might also be somewhat familiar with his work: such classics as Anand, Aradhana, Amar Prem, Aavishkar and Bawarchi, which play on TV now and then. But to know and understand what and who Rajesh Khanna is and was, ask your mother. Chances are, she may have harboured a secret (maybe even an open and zealous) crush on Rajesh Khanna in her youth. My mother did. In truth, it was an entire female generation’s adulation of this actor that was at the centre of the Rajesh Khanna phenomenon.
Since the onset of his undisclosed illness, brought to popular notice by his weak frame in a recent TV commercial for Havells fans in which he announces that nobody can take his fans away from him (he can rest assured of that), wellwishers have wondered whether all is okay with the Lord of Aashirwad, that ocean-front shrine in Mumbai that has been his home. But the commercial has served its purpose. It has turned the spotlight back on him, just as he wanted. One of his reasons for doing the commercial was to subtly remind people of his days of refulgence, the time when he more or less owned the word ‘superstar’, a term coined especially for him by Devyani Chaubal of Star & Style magazine.
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The Rajesh Khanna story is without parallel. It never had a prequel and can never have a sequel. It stands alone as one with extreme alienation at its heart. He was a soft, uncannily romantic hero at a time of Dharmendra-like masculinity. That look in his eyes, that hint of a smile and that nod of his head all had a magical effect on women. Some of the praise that the critic Pauline Kael once lavished on Cary Grant can apply to Khanna as well: that he was a male love object, and that men wanted to be as ‘lucky and enviable’ as he was, and that ‘women imagined landing him.’ Add chartbuster songs to romantic mannerisms, and—voila—you had a star few women could resist.
In a chapter on the actor in the anthology Bollywood’s Top 20: Superstars of Indian Cinema, Avijit Ghosh writes that without music, ‘Rajesh Khanna became an actor without his best lines.’ There was a touch of the poet-philosopher, notes Ghosh, in the characters he played. In this, as in other things, it was as if Khanna stood alone, like an outsider trying to break into a charmed circle.
Several of his co-stars, including Amitabh Bachchan, have testified to an inability to put in words the extent and reach of his stardom. It’s hard to imagine it now, but there was once a time when Bachchan’s claim to fame was that he had worked with Khanna. The irony of this, however, is that while Bachchan has retained a relevance in another era of cinema well past his prime, Khanna’s appeal remains frozen in its old frame of the mid 1960s till the mid 1970s.
If at all, it is Khanna’s films with Hrishikesh Mukherjee that help him cross over to different generations and lend him longevity as an actor—mind you, only as an actor, not as a superstar. His success is a story cherished only by those who were young when he was at the peak of his power. For today’s youth, he is at best a relic from the past who continues to be his own enemy, trapped as he is by a false sense of propriety and his own image, one who lives in that dream mansion in the comfort of a stardom that is now only illusory at best. In other words, he lives in a hopeless time warp, and in that, he may easily be real life’s closest equivalent to Sunset Boulevard’s delusional ‘I-am-big’ centrepiece.
What happened to him was something rather Norma Desmond-like. Not that the pictures got small (they got big, in fact), but he refused to acknowledge that he was fast fading away. Khanna—or Kaka as he was affectionately nicknamed—and Desmond appear to be lonely inhabitants of their own fame and misfortune. As fellow travellers, separated by nearly half a century, they are prisoners of their own respective worlds of make-believe, even as everything else moves on. Is it their fault that nobody told them about it?
For any superstar, being loved by audiences is nothing short of a life-affirming need, but for Rajesh Khanna, that alone wouldn’t do. There was a time when almost all of India loved him. Not to be left out—and quite in tune with the rest of the country, to be fair—Rajesh Khanna fell in love with himself. The bedazzler of fans had bedazzled himself. It was an act of narcissism, say critics, that needed only one sort of divine sanction: his own.
“At one point, Rajesh Khanna was a god, but the trouble with him is that he started thinking he was one,” says Ali Peter John, a senior film journalist who has known Khanna for a long time.
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June 26, 2012 at 8:43 AM
a comment I left on Bachchan’s blog a few days ago:
[Glad to learn Rajesh Khanna has been feeling better after yet another health scare. Must say though that time has been very unkind to him. He looks like an extraordinarily pale shadow of his former self. I’ve probably said this before but there’s no star I feel sorrier for than him. An unprecedented rise but also an unprecedented fall. There are worse things than failure in life and the worst for a star is ‘irrelevance’. The point where even though one keeps working no one particularly cares. Rajesh Khanna sadly spent many years after his ‘superstardom’ in this condition. Most people who rise to great heights have their innings and then decline. Many never even get to those peaks and hence the stakes are never than high. But of those who did his is really a solitary example. No one faced this reality more brutally than he did. Which is why he has my permanent sympathy even if one could justly criticize him for not exactly being the most level-headed about his unique success when he did have it. Getting back to his current physical self though two stars have shocked me in recent years with their ‘decline’ in this sense. Firstly Shashi Kapoor. It was always very unfortunate that he just let himself go after his wife’s death and added all that extraordinary weight. But his recent form has been even worse than this. And now Rajesh Khanna. This is not about age and the usual changes and equally ‘usual’ cruelties of time. This is much worse. We never know what kind of physical and/or mental decline awaits us at the end of our lives. Only the fortunate survive serious challenges in this sense. I would have liked to add something positive about you here but I know you will be a bit superstitious about this and therefore I shall desist. But only the fortunate are so blessed by the gods right uptill the end. It is one of our failings as humans that we strive for all sorts of things but we always take mental and physical health for granted, or that which is a precondition for everything else. Even chronic problems are very debilitating (as you know more than most of us if not all) let alone something greater than this. I do wish Rajesh Khanna greater health going forward..]
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June 26, 2012 at 11:25 AM
Great piece here and an equally good comment by Satyam…
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June 26, 2012 at 11:50 AM
thanks Rocky..
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June 27, 2012 at 9:44 PM
very moving piece and comment.
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July 2, 2012 at 1:13 AM
There are many errors in the story you have given the link to, Satyam. Khanna may have been arrogant, but he never treated Bachchan as a junior artiste. Amitabh was asked point blank in an interview with Movie magazine in 1990 if he ever had any problems with Khanna professionally or otherwise, and he said that he never had any issues with Khanna. Amitabh went to clarify that Rajesh Khanna never treated him as a junior in the industry, nor did he try to upstage him in any scene they did together.
Hrihikesh Mukherjee was asked in a separate interview if he ever had any problem with Khanna in the movies he made with him. To that Mukherjee replied, “Pinto baba (Mukherjee’s name for Rajesh Khanna) never gave me any trouble.”
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July 2, 2012 at 1:30 AM
Bachchan is not likely to ever say that anyone treated him badly! That Khanna never treated Mukherjee in this way is something I completely believe.
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July 2, 2012 at 6:41 PM
Hi Satyam, I agree with you completely. Bachchan is not likely to say that. But he said positive things about working with Kaka in a few interviews (not just the Movie magazine interview, but also in an interview with Ameen Sayani, etc.). If Bachchan was truly hurt he would have said very little or nothing at all, he is very diplomatic about such things.
Kaka was possibly arrogant at one point and may have been very envious of Amitabh taking the crown from him, but the malicious actions and quotes attributed to him regarding Amitabh do not ring true. I have done a lot of research on the duo.
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June 26, 2012 at 11:50 AM
This was an absorbing read..thanks for posting.
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June 26, 2012 at 12:27 PM
“But only the fortunate are so blessed by the gods right uptill the end”
So you DO believe in god!!!
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June 26, 2012 at 12:39 PM
as the plural would seem to indicate I believe in many gods..
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June 26, 2012 at 12:41 PM
LOL!!!! god of words being first among equals !!
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June 26, 2012 at 12:54 PM
What Rocky said.
Great piece and the comment by Satyam.
Hard not to sympathise with Khanna.
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June 26, 2012 at 3:32 PM
actually not sure if its true but read somewhere ages ago–that dimple never lived with rajesh after the ‘honeymoon period’–nor her diuaghters
also there were rumours of the sunny deol phase..
well, all that is fine and one cant complain since it is personal
but whats this drama/facade of ‘looking after’ poor rajesh khanna in his ‘serious illness’ etc
the qualm is not the ‘separation; or alleged adultery etc
but this public pretense
that pic of poor rajesh khanna being ‘looked after’ by the homely dimple and the obedient akshay irked somewhat..
ps- in the same article, there were reports of randhir kaporr ebing kicked out by his wife and the twin obscenties karisma -kareena
well, doubt the accuracy of such reports-but both kapoors–rajesh and randhir should form a union (against homelessness) and female abandonment
🙂
ps–not to trivialise rajesh khannas illness
wish him a speedy recovery…
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June 26, 2012 at 3:37 PM
Alex,
That is so cynical!.
It is quite likely RK and Dimple fell apart but it was never a publicly acrimonious split.
And, it is equally likely that in this hour of need when RK has no one else to look after him, Dimple is helping out as a friend and a well wisher. Dimple has always been a private person and have not seen many if any undignified public moments. I dont see it as a pretense or a facade.
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June 26, 2012 at 3:38 PM
rajen unle–how are YOU so sure about dimples private life?
other than sunny deol, are you also….
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June 26, 2012 at 3:49 PM
I have no idea about Dimple’s privaye life!
I have commented on her public persona and made an educated guess about one aspect of her private life.
On a larger principle, I believe that we tend to regard all public figures as a fair game when it comes to their private life and often fling seemingly wild and often unfair charges at them.
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June 26, 2012 at 3:51 PM
“I believe that we tend to regard all public figures as a fair game when it comes to their private life and often fling seemingly wild and often unfair charges at them.”
agree
and thats a price the public figures pay for all their perks (and should pay) lol
nothing comes for free….( public demands the pound of flesh 🙂
ps–no pun intended wrt dimple obviously
btw dimple was/is quite an attractive aunty…..
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June 26, 2012 at 3:55 PM
Re: btw dimple was/is quite an attractive aunty
LOL! Did you have to use the word aunty??
Sippy captured her breath taking beauty very well in Saagar.
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June 26, 2012 at 3:56 PM
beauty and assets
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June 26, 2012 at 3:58 PM
what started as a concern for ailing rajesh khanna has turned into a critique on dimples beauty (and assets)…
oh what all do public figures have to endure lol
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June 26, 2012 at 3:59 PM
Lol….
Saagar one scene and godrej crowning glory ad are 2 epic scenes 🙂 Play- Pause- Play- Rewind 😛
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June 26, 2012 at 4:01 PM
“Play- Pause- Play- Rewind ”
hmm.. bliss so u sound a hidden pervert (as well)
btw how did u start lusting after dimple
Were u a male in those days…lol
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June 26, 2012 at 3:37 PM
Karisma and kareena in a bout of kindness went to a organ transplant centre to pledge their organs after life…(actually frankly speaking they thought this will look cool and they will seem trendy)
only one of their organ was found fit for transplant-
surprisingly their brain…
(not for humans but for chimps though)
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June 26, 2012 at 3:44 PM
btw a small tribute to rajesh khanna
the original superstar
rare has been someones sudden ascent and decline of such magnitude
Young girls in that era (like oldgold) used to marry this persons photo as per anecdotal reports
rdb-kishore-khanna—like this song
also signifies khannas real life somewhat and this song signals the shape of things to come in his professiobal (and maybe personal life)
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